Let me guess: something has been feeling off, you feel like you need some sort of rejuvenation or renewal. You are convinced that it’s time for a change. Maybe you want to shift into something new or become something new. Or maybe you are kinda feeling like you want to burn it all down and start over. But is that the right thing to do? Right now? You think so… but you’re not sure. You want to be sure.
Well, I have bad news for you – you’re looking for a guarantee that doesn’t exist. But you know what? If you’re reading this, you already know the answer. But hey, I get it! It’s scary to take drastic action without some external authority telling you that you are doing the right thing. But maybe finally trusting yourself is part of this next transformation for you, hmmm?
The truth is, we all need a little push now and again, so you take this article as the sign you’ve been looking for – the confirmation that you are READY for profound personal transformation in a BIG way.
Are you on the verge of profound transformation?
It’s normal to go through many periods of personal transformation throughout your life. Some are going to be very intense, while others won’t feel quite as cataclysmic.
No matter how big or small the shift is, one thing will always be true: when it’s time, it’s time.
When it’s time for you to move forward – to transform, to undergo a transformation, it’ll happen, whether you like it or not.
If you fight the process, it may take longer, but you will eventually be dragged through it kicking and screaming. And if you’ve done it the hard way once (and really, who hasn’t), you know you don’t want to do it again!
But what if (just a thought!) instead of waiting to be put through the wringer, you initiated your own transformation?
You have to power to create profound personal transformation for yourself – to deliberately rebirth yourself into your next-level life. And I’m going to tell you how (at the end of this article)
5 unmistakeable signs it’s time for a change
How do you know when it’s time for a change, a BIG change – when you are ready to rebirth yourself? Life goes on and on at a frightening pace and it’s easy to ignore the signs that change is imminent.
If these 5 signs sound familiar, you may be dragging your feet and resisting the change that is going to let you make a big leap forward in your life. If these ring a bell, what are you waiting for?
1. You feel misfit and disconnected from your life
Do you feel like you have been stuck with a life that wasn’t meant for you?
- You instinctively know that something just isn’t right. Your life just doesn’t fit you – it’s chaffing and uncomfortable – like your life and the persona you are living as are meant for someone else.
- You feel like you’ve been trying to shape yourself to a mold that does not fit at all
- You feel like your life is something that has happened to you, rather than something you chose. Somehow you have been dragged along by life instead of being an active participant in your choices.
Sometimes people in this situation find themselves trying to blame outside sources (situations, people, relationships, etc) for their discomfort, hopping from one to another trying to pinpoint the blame. Deep down though, you know that you are the one that doesn’t fit – you are supposed to be doing something else.
2. You are doubting everything
Are you filled with doubt – second-guessing yourself, your life, and your choices?
There have been so many different demands and expectations thrown at you that you’re not sure where you end and all that other stuff begins.
Maybe you want to take a big leap, but you’re terrified of what could happen once you leave your safety nets behind. And what if you fully commit and fail spectacularly? What if everything you have to give isn’t enough?
And where to start? What next steps should you take? You don’t know how to move forward or even where to start. You feel locked in a cage of insecurity and self-doubt and you’re questioning everything.
3. You are uninspired
Do you feel uninspired and discontented? Things that used to be satisfying or fulfilling just aren’t doing it for you anymore!
You are struggling to clearly articulate what you want from your life (maybe you’re not even really sure what you want). How can you explain it to someone else if you can’t even explain it to yourself?
Everyone tells you to follow your passion, but you don’t really know what you’re supposed to be doing. You feel confused and directionless.
4. You feel restless
Are you constantly restless and having a hard time focusing? Maybe you are feeling a deep urging to GO
You can’t stand to stay where you are any longer. You are suffocating!
You are weary and exhausted and you just don’t want to do this anymore – you are sick and tired of being you and living a shallow life.
You’re tired of pretending to be something that you’re not and tired of pretending that what you have is enough for you. You are longing for something MORE.
5. You feel stuck
Being stuck can mean a couple of different things:
- You feel like you get stuck in old stories and patterns that keep repeating themselves, like you keep getting trapped in the same cycle over and over
- You know what your dream life looks like, but this is real life. You just don’t see a path to where you wish you could be. There are too many obstacles standing in the way. You can’t figure out how to get from point A to point B.
- You are so close to your next level you can taste it, but you can’t quite make the shift. You feel like if you could just shift one thing everything would break free
- You feel like you’ve taken half a step forward into your new self, but you are also still stuck in your old self and you can’t figure out how to shake it loose so you can move forward completely
Is it time for a change? Which of these 5 signs resonates with you? Tell me in the comments below!
I KNOW it’s time for a change! I’m ready, but what now?
“How can you rise, if you have not burned?” – Fatima Ahmad Ibrahim
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